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The Halo Effect

Defining good canine public manners can take on a subjective approach.
A dog owner's perception of good public dog manners and behavior or denial of what many onlookers deem obvious obnoxious behavior is a never ending source of comic relief for me. Many pet parents, yes some dog owners like to be called pet parents, think of their dogs as angels no matter the behavior. Some parents of human children also have blinders on when in public with their children and think their child can do no wrong.

If you are walking your dog in the city or on a nature trail you may experience a leashed dog dragging their owner toward you while you are hearing that out of breath owner declaring, he just loves other dogs. The next thing you hear from the dog is a grrrrrrrrrr, followed by a lunge and pounce at your well mannered dog. One popular excuse offered by some owners of a rude dog is she is only lunging and barking at your dog because she wants to say Hi.

Some pet parents defend their angels rude on leash behavior as the normal way dogs greet each other. First off, dogs are not a species that love every other strange dog they meet on the street. Humans don't love every stranger either. Some owners of ill mannered, untrained dogs expect other dogs that are well mannered to accept their feisty Fido lunging and barking at them under the guise of just wanting to say Hi.

I am out and about daily with my clients and their dogs. I am all over Seattle and the Eastside for my reality training program and there is not a day that goes by that we do not encounter or witness poor public canine manners allowed by a dog owner. I do not blame the dog in any of these circumstances. I point out these examples of poor public dog etiquette to clients to help the owner what situations to avoid. If we encounter great on leash dog behavior and an owner with control over their dog's on leash manners I use that wonderful control as an example for new owners to follow.

One of my pet peeves is an owner's inappropriate use of retractable or flexi leashes in crowded areas where owners allow their little canine angel to be rude from a distance.
The distance these flexi leads can allow from that owner to their dog may be around 10 feet.

The owner acts oblivious that their dog is taking up more than their fair share of real estate on a sidewalk, in a parking lot, down a pet store aisle, or in any city park forcing other leashed dogs and owners to move out of their way. Reminds me of shopping at Costco and navigating around unattended shopping carts left in the middle of an aisle while that cart custodian gets engrossed in a book or more likely a free snack.

I am curious as to your positive or challenging experiences around other leashed dogs when walking your dog.

Diane Rich
Diane Rich Dog Training, LLC
www.spokesdog.com

Posted by at March 28, 2008 5:45 p.m.
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Posted by unregistered user at 4/18/08 2:02 p.m.

I feel like I am the total opposite - I often am fearful of how my dog will react and constantly worrying about who else is on the sidewalk. It often takes a friend to point out that my pup is acting very well and "like a dog." Sometimes I feel he should have people-like manners.

One thing I do have a problem with is the "surprise love attack" my dog gives. We will be almost past a person on the sidewalk, or coming up to another dog/owner and my dog will lunge at the person and/or dog. Never aggressive, but it can frighten others, and me when I'm not ready for it. I can't seem to predict the lunge. Any thoughts?

#119538

Posted by Diane Rich at 4/19/08 5:43 p.m.

Without knowing more about your specific circumstances and your dog's age, not easy to offer training advice. Lunging at another person or dog needs to be addressed.

I have not heard lunging described as a "love attack." I am sure most people who are the targets of your dog's "affections" or whose dogs are the targets of this behavior and trying to walk by you may define the behavior differently also.

I would suggest you find a trainer in your area to help you with this issue before it gets worse. You want to hire an experienced trainer with a hands on approach so they can demonstrate to you exactly what to do and what not to do. Hopefully they can also help you understand your dog's body language to help you predict behavior so you can be proactive in helping him learn appropriate public manners.

If you are fearful, I guarantee you, your dog will pick up on your fear. Our fears can inadvertantly trigger the exact behavior that is of concern.

Diane

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